podcast

EP
34

F/A-18 Combat Missions to Faith-Filled Coaching I Colonel Tray Ardese USMC

The Briefcase & The Barn is hosted by two Dutch Reformed misfits who’ve spent most of their lives in the church’s side-eye.

Kyle Van Ruitenburg is the PK and connections guy who’s been around the world (and yes—straight off the boat). Gary Baars is the money guy who’s been around just about every farm and cow.

Together, they have blunt, funny, real talk about business, life, faith, culture, and the stuff Christians usually don't talk about.

Recorded on the west coast of Canada in Chilliwack, BC.

New episodes every Wednesday at 5 am PST.

Created & produced by The Furiously Curious Company.

#ToGodBeTheGlory

🤝 *support the show here *👇

www.furiouslycurious.co/donate

📞 Interested in Kyle's Coaching, Recruiting, or Employment Opportunities?

Text Kyle: 1-604-703-9045

Email: kyle@furiouslycurious.co

Website: https://www.furiouslycurious.com

Social Media:

https://www.facebook.com/FuriouslyCuriousShow

https://www.instagram.com/furiouslycuriousco/

Got questions or feedback?

Email Kyle at kyle@furiouslycurious.co

Colonel Tray Ardese flew over 250 combat missions in an F/A-18 fighter jet, earned the Bronze Star and Purple Heart, and led direct action operations with U.S. Special Forces. But today, he’s on a new mission—helping men live with clarity, faith, and purpose.

In this powerful episode, Tray opens up about what it really feels like to step out of the military, lose your identity, wrestle with grief, purpose, and his role as a coach. We talk about his Native American roots, what his faith in Jesus means to him, and why leadership isn’t about titles—it’s about service.

Tray is joining Furiously Curious Coaching as a coach to help men navigate their toughest transitions—from fatherhood to business to faith—and lead lives that truly matter.

This isn’t just another military story. It’s a conversation about redemption, resilience, and the power of showing up when it counts.

I hope you enjoy this conversation as much as I did.

– Kyle

Support the Show Here! Patreon

Do you know of someone who would be good to come on the podcast? Email me!

Thanks for watching, and God bless.

Disclaimer:
These materials and links are provided strictly as a courtesy. We make no representations as to the completeness or accuracy of information provided at these websites. When you access one of these websites, you are leaving our website and assume total responsibility and risk for your use of the website to which you are linking. The information is not intended to provide you with any personalized financial, insurance, legal, accounting, tax, or other professional advice.

Subscribe to Our Podcast

Subscribe to our podcast and grow Your Wealth and Beyond!

listen now

Stop Work From Controlling Your Life

Together, we’ll forge your path through the hard stuff to get to the good stuff.
book a call
A scenic view of a golf course with tall trees and mountains in the background.